The Surprising Reason Men Always Choose Certain Women
Scientific Research Discovery Explains :
The Surprising Reason Men Tend To Pick Certain Women
(And why they constantly reject or neglect others).
All her life, Tanya had constantly been told she was "fantastic ", "A great catch ", "inspiring ", and "perfect wife material" by the guys she'd dated ...
But all those seemingly encouraging and warm words actually made her feel worse.
Because the reality is:.
Despite how fantastic they CLAIMED she was, they still weren't PICKING her for the long-term.
For Tanya, this meant that those guys were either lying to her, or there was something else wrong with her: something so repulsive that they couldn't picture themselves continuing with her.
"It made me feel useless " she explained to us. "Why am I just not sufficient for the men that seem perfect for me ?".
"All I want is for somebody to love me".
So, what makes a man want to build a future with a particular type of partner while overlooking others? This is a fundamental question that has plagued women for all of history.
Fortunately, science might finally have an answer to this question.
According to research released in the scientific journal, "Archives of Sexual Behavior"*, men do not choose women based on "rational reasons".
Dating and relationship expert Clayton Max told us, "It's not about ticking the criteria on his checklist of what makes his 'ideal girl '. And a woman can not convince a man to want to be with her".
The point is, Max says, when a woman tries to convince a man, put pressure on him, or show him just how amazing she is, 9 times out of ten it will backfire since these behaviors actually indicate the exact opposite of what makes a man confidently sure a certain partner is the one for him.
"The truth is" according to Max, "males choose partners based on whether they do one specific thing:.
They are drawn to women who trigger the instinctive feeling of INFATUATION".
Psychologists have found that infatuation originates from a subconscious instinct deep within the brain ...
Either it's switched on or it's switched off.
When a man's infatuation response is ON, it makes no difference if she has the characteristics he identified as his 'perfect match'.
A woman could be totally wrong for him, however, he'll make time for her. He'll move cities to be with her. He'll change occupations for her if it's needed.
Because the Infatuation Response literally SWITCHES OFF his mind to everything other than her .
So how does a woman trigger a man's Infatuation Impulse ... to make him so overwhelmed with desire that he's ready to do anything to convince her how much he wants her?
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